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Gary passed away

My partners brother died on Saturday.  It was a complete shock.  We are all waiting for the autopsy report.  He was only 63 and no one knew of any problems other than some sleep apnea.  No time to prepare and everyone is stressed. No will, no directives, no preperations.

Lifes lesson? We should think about our family and have a plan in place.

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northernsnokat
Sep. 3rd, 2010 10:46 am (UTC)
Yes you should and we did that right after Dad passed away this year. A wake up call of sorts.

My deepest sympathy to you, her, and the rest of her family. *hugs*
marians_light
Sep. 3rd, 2010 11:25 am (UTC)
Thanks sweetie I'll tell her
zagella
Sep. 3rd, 2010 12:32 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry for your loss and hope you are all being strong for each other.

I totally agree with you about preparing for life's end. I've been involved in clearing out a couple of my elderly relative's homes and now try and keep mine reasonably clear of rubbish and stuff that I really don't need. I also have a friend who has all my system passwords (including to LJ) so they can reach out to everyone to let them know what's happened for me. I hate it when people just disappear and you never know why.
marians_light
Sep. 4th, 2010 12:09 am (UTC)
thanks GF!
cowgrrl
Sep. 3rd, 2010 04:50 pm (UTC)
So sorry -- sudden death like that is so hard! (I know I'm not prepared either...) *hug*
marians_light
Sep. 4th, 2010 12:08 am (UTC)
get something in place and soon :)
texasts
Sep. 3rd, 2010 08:52 pm (UTC)
Whoa!

My sympathies.

A sudden death or even near death makes us mindful that there should be a plan. That said, do 'I' have one? No. But my recent experience with a pretty serious health issue, has definitely put it closer to the front burner as it were.
marians_light
Sep. 4th, 2010 12:06 am (UTC)
thanks,

I say get it done and soon!
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